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But the advice they offer below on how to approach anal sex, especially as a beginner, is a great jumping off point for individual exploration into the great anal beyond.Say bye-bye to spit and oils and say hello to lubes. And most of the adult stars I’ve spoken to over the years about the topic agree that, for some people, anal just might not be a good fit. Other people, DeVille cautions, may be at higher risk of injuries than others. Stars like Sartre and longtime anal expert Joanna Angel, for instance, feel like their vaginas fatigue from frequent or rough sex faster than their asses Angel told me her body seems so well built for anal she doesn’t need to stretch even to prep for hardcore scenes. And not all of their advice will be relevant to everyone, as every asshole has different needs and levels of resilience. But some stars believe in a degree of prep work even in real life, while others believe it can be done well spontaneously, in the heat of the sexual moment. They are unanimous on the value of a ton of lube and gradual exploration. Not all agree on how to do anal in real life. But they know anal, and are happy to share tips for how to do it well. And, barring one or two like Kelly, who says that in her personal life she likes to “be ripped around and stretched to the core in an anal Olympics session” like she is on screen, most say they don’t do it nearly as often in their personal lives, and certainly not as hardcore or for as long as they do in scenes. (“I know my insides pretty well,” the anal queen Mandy Muse told me, “considering I’ve gone pretty far up and touched them.”) Sure, they sometimes have nasty accidents, or suffer horror stories.
“An anal orgasm is intense for males, making their whole body quiver, or in some cases causing a man or trans woman to ejaculate without ever touching themselves,” says prominent trans porn star Kimber Haven.Įven if the anal they do on screen is hardly realistic for most people in everyday life, though, porn stars (like other sex workers) still have gobs of experience with back door play. “I’ve found that I love anal orgasms and get really turned on by gaping,” says Snow. The opening of the anus contains tons of nerve endings in people of any gender it is also close to the "legs" of the clitoris and the vaginal g-spot, and allows stimulation of the prostate, for those who have that anatomy. That is a shame, because not only can anal sex be done safely, with no or minimal risk of injury, but it can, in theory, be fun for everyone. “But it still takes me about three or four days of prep before I can do an anal scene.” “I can’t honestly think of all the things that have been up my anus,” she says. “I have a pretty good system down,” adds Audrey Hollander, a 14-year porn vet known in some circles as an extreme anal queen. "Because, OK, I know I’m going to have anal with this person over here and at this time, so you just feel 100 percent ready” in a way you often can’t in real life. “The controlled environment of porn really does help,” says Joseline Kelly, who entered the industry in 2015. Some take supplements to keep their BMs regular, fasting, popping Imodium, and doing at least one enema in the half-day or day before a scene to minimize the risk of a fecal mishap.
That training and prep is different for everyone, but usually it involves acclimating anuses with fingers or toys for hours or days before a scene, and using relaxation tricks. “Girls train their assholes in order to take the kind of crazy poundings they take on film,” says Skylar Snow, an adult performer who entered the industry last year.
But porn anal, most in the adult industry will gladly tell you, is a fantasy.